Attend a Gathering (Majlis)

A majlis (literally "a gathering") is where people come together to remember Imam Hussain — his stand for justice, his suffering, and his undying love for God. The tragedy of Karbala took place in the Islamic month of Muharram, the first month of the lunar calendar. During the first ten days of Muharram, Shia Muslims around the world hold commemoration events, night after night, keeping Hussain's message alive.

What to expect at your first Majlis

You are most welcome — everyone is, including women and children. In the mosque (or community hall), men and women will sit separately, as is customary in Islamic worship. There is no pressure to participate in any ritual; simply observing is perfectly fine.

A majlis typically follows this rhythm:

• A short recitation from the Holy Quran — usually a passage about patience or divine mercy.
• One or two short eulogies (in Arabic or the local language), setting the emotional tone.
• The main speaker delivers a lecture — often blending history, spirituality, and contemporary relevance. You will hear about Imam Hussain's character, the political betrayal he faced, and the timeless lessons of Karbala.
• As the lecture ends, the speaker recounts the final, painful moments of Karbala — the thirst, the slaughter, the burning tents, the orphaned children. This part is deeply emotional; many will weep openly. Tears shed for Hussain are considered a form of devotion.
• Finally, the congregation recites lamentations (nawha or latmiya) — rhythmic, sorrowful poems mourning the martyrs. Some will gently beat their chests with an open palm. This is an ancient Arab custom of grieving a beloved departed, and in this context, it also symbolises protest against tyranny and a refusal to be silent.

After the lamentations, the formal gathering ends. Then comes niyaz — a simple meal or refreshments offered as a blessing. It is a time to sit, share, and feel the warmth of community. Many first-time attendees say this is where they feel most welcomed.